"The Talk"
Obviously, this is not the talk to determine whether or not your hubby enjoys sissy baby things. No, that talk is much easier and usually means fun things.
This talk is the one where you expect your hubby to admit that he is a baby/baby girl and that he needs this as a way of life... and the one where you leave consistently frustrated. You have done everything you can, but you DON'T want to push something that he may or may not want, right? That's exactly where I found myself leading up to our "talk".
Why is this? Why is a little Ab/Sissy Baby incapable of just simply coming out and saying to their wife "Hey, I NEED to be your baby/baby girl as often as possible. Please don't see me as a man anymore, I'm not one". Lol, first honestly ask yourself - Can you hear your hubby saying this?
If you're here, then you already know. This is probably where your relationship dynamic is headed, right? The fact is that many babies/sissy babies are INCAPABLE of having this conversation with their spouse, unless the spouse forces the issue. Because this is much like a Mommy would do with her child, we often refer to "the talk" as STEP 1 of the process.
This talk is the one where you expect your hubby to admit that he is a baby/baby girl and that he needs this as a way of life... and the one where you leave consistently frustrated. You have done everything you can, but you DON'T want to push something that he may or may not want, right? That's exactly where I found myself leading up to our "talk".
Why is this? Why is a little Ab/Sissy Baby incapable of just simply coming out and saying to their wife "Hey, I NEED to be your baby/baby girl as often as possible. Please don't see me as a man anymore, I'm not one". Lol, first honestly ask yourself - Can you hear your hubby saying this?
If you're here, then you already know. This is probably where your relationship dynamic is headed, right? The fact is that many babies/sissy babies are INCAPABLE of having this conversation with their spouse, unless the spouse forces the issue. Because this is much like a Mommy would do with her child, we often refer to "the talk" as STEP 1 of the process.
Why Can't My Baby/Sissy Baby Have "The Talk"?
Well, this is a two part answer, to be honest. The first answer, is oddly enough, the simplest to explain. Watch a child blowing bubbles sometime. See how they focus on trying to pop every one, and in the process just end up running around, chasing bubbles that are already popping themselves? That is very similar to what happens in the brain of the Baby/Sissy Baby when they regress (which, until it is controlled is INVOLUNTARY - See: "Common Issues"). The sheer gravity of this "talk" makes them want to hit on every topic while honestly explaining each and every sentence and thought so as not to be shunned or to make you angry. Trust me, my husband has a Masters degree in Philosophy and though we attempted this talk several times, he always wound up babbling on, getting twisted around, and generally making no sense. Instead of progress, the three times we had this talk with HIM initiating it, we came to the following conclusions:
1. He was a cross-dresser
2. He was bi-sexual
3. He was nothing but really screwed up from his life, and needed counseling
Of course, none of these things turned out to be true, and after many expensive lessons, we learned that it was the PROCESS that was broken, not my husband's brain. Once I took the reins, the conversation went much smoother, and we now have a relationship that will last for the rest of our lives - one in which we are both happy and in which we both benefit.
1. He was a cross-dresser
2. He was bi-sexual
3. He was nothing but really screwed up from his life, and needed counseling
Of course, none of these things turned out to be true, and after many expensive lessons, we learned that it was the PROCESS that was broken, not my husband's brain. Once I took the reins, the conversation went much smoother, and we now have a relationship that will last for the rest of our lives - one in which we are both happy and in which we both benefit.
IMPORTANT ELEMENTS OF "THE TALK"
IF your hubby really is a Baby/Sissy Baby (See: Admittedly Not A Man), then this is the first opportunity that you have to really assert your place as Mommy. Also, if handled incorrectly, this is a place where a major crack can develop in you Mommy/Baby foundation. Understand that going TOO MATERNAL is IMPOSSIBLE here. If it turns out that your hubby is indeed a Baby/Sissy Baby, then you are starting off strong by going maternal as hell. If he is not, you can say that you "were tired of the indecisiveness, and wanted to speed things along" OR, considering your hubby is a submissive, you could always just say "Well, I thought it'd be fun/sexy".
ELEMENTS:
1. A Maternal Tone - PRIORITY NUMBER ONE. You are Mommy (probably), and you know what is best... and right now what is best is for him to make a decision.
2. A Position of Movement - I made my hubby walk from our bedroom into the living room. This signified a journey was about to begin, and the human brain is very aware of these types of signals.
3. Nudity (for admittance) - This is humbling, and immediately sets the positions of both you and your hubby.
4. A Diaper - This is key. It begins as it will continue, and hey... if he's going to admit it, it's never to soon to begin.
Honestly, these are the key ingredients. As usual, I try to use humor to take some of the sting out of a serious subject. However, reading this site you will see how I handled "The Talk", and if you handle your "talk" correctly, there is no reason why it cannot be the building block of the rest of your relationship. Good luck ladies, and if you need help... consult with your mentor. ;-)
ELEMENTS:
1. A Maternal Tone - PRIORITY NUMBER ONE. You are Mommy (probably), and you know what is best... and right now what is best is for him to make a decision.
2. A Position of Movement - I made my hubby walk from our bedroom into the living room. This signified a journey was about to begin, and the human brain is very aware of these types of signals.
3. Nudity (for admittance) - This is humbling, and immediately sets the positions of both you and your hubby.
4. A Diaper - This is key. It begins as it will continue, and hey... if he's going to admit it, it's never to soon to begin.
Honestly, these are the key ingredients. As usual, I try to use humor to take some of the sting out of a serious subject. However, reading this site you will see how I handled "The Talk", and if you handle your "talk" correctly, there is no reason why it cannot be the building block of the rest of your relationship. Good luck ladies, and if you need help... consult with your mentor. ;-)