Helpful Ideas and (Hopefully) Fun Tips
LIFESTYLE
While NOBODY can tell you how to build a relationship that will work for you, there are many key ideas that can start you down the road to babyhood-bliss without causing a big wrinkle in your already accepted routine or outing you prematurely.
NAME YOUR NEW BABY!!!
I cannot stress this enough? The reasons are numerous, but mostly - It IMMEDIATELY sets a tone of ownership and dominance. Let's be honest, the Mommy/Baby relationship dynamic is - at its core - a FemDom relationship.
Secondly, if your hubby is anything like mine - his name (especially my hubbies name) was a symbol of everything that he had been forced to be his entire life. It reminded him of times when he had been forced to be something he wasn't - and so it made him unhappy. A new name made hubby feel better about himself, freer as himself, and secure in a new chapter of his life.
Another good reason - It's pretty! Who wants a little sissy baby girl named Tom? Obviously disregard this reason if your baby is not of the sissy variety.
Secondly, if your hubby is anything like mine - his name (especially my hubbies name) was a symbol of everything that he had been forced to be his entire life. It reminded him of times when he had been forced to be something he wasn't - and so it made him unhappy. A new name made hubby feel better about himself, freer as himself, and secure in a new chapter of his life.
Another good reason - It's pretty! Who wants a little sissy baby girl named Tom? Obviously disregard this reason if your baby is not of the sissy variety.
SET RULES, GUIDELINES, BOUNDARIES - AND ENFORCE THEM!
Everybody loves talking about how fun and flirty the AB / Sissy Baby lifestyle is, right? Okay, well not everybody - but you get my point. Outside of the playroom, there are necessary and important things that must be discussed. When can hubby be the baby he was born to be? How can he do that? How far will it go?
These things are IMPORTANT and MUST be discussed and agreed to by both people!
Imagine if you think everything is good, and suddenly you wind up with a poopy diaper to change? Not so much fun if you're, well, squeamish.
On the next page, you will find an example of the rules that my hubby and I use during our baby time. Our schedule is pretty complicated, but here it is:
These things are IMPORTANT and MUST be discussed and agreed to by both people!
Imagine if you think everything is good, and suddenly you wind up with a poopy diaper to change? Not so much fun if you're, well, squeamish.
On the next page, you will find an example of the rules that my hubby and I use during our baby time. Our schedule is pretty complicated, but here it is:
ANYTIME THAT WE ARE ALONE, UNLESS OTHERWISE NOTED, IS BABY TIME AND THE RULES ARE IN EFFECT.
This might seem like overkill and some might wonder if our life ever gets monotonous. First, my rule of thumb is that I would rather have a happy sissy baby husband than a miserable manly man - so I made it a common thing for him to have what he so desperately needs.
Secondly, our live never gets boring or monotonous. We have a great deal of fun - both Mommy/Sissy Baby related and Wife/Husband related. This is just a part of our daily lives and even though we have kids, it works for us on a level that brings us completely together. Our lives are private, but sometimes I feel like telling my friends (who complain constantly that they have "dead" relationships) to open their mind and try something new.
Anyway, diapers, sissification and general babyhood are parts of our DAILY lives. And yes, this means that each night once the kids are in bed, the pants come off and the diapers go on. This also means that sleeping attire, depending on the weather, is either:
* A Diaper
* A Diaper and a T-Shirt
* A Diaper and Pyjamas
Is this difficult to enforce each and every day? Oh yes, especially when I am exhausted from other things. However, knowing that I can cancel a night whenever I feel like it takes much of the stress and anxiety out of being a Mommy for my hubby.
When we had our talk (which was more like me talking and him listening), I gave him a choice - either give up this baby stuff altogether, or admit that he was really a sissy baby at heart and do everything he was told, whenever he was told, like a good baby girl should. I left him in our bedroom to contemplate this decision with the only instructions being that if he did want to be my sissy baby, all he had to do was come out to the living room naked, carrying a diaper, and admit it. Obviously I'm making this site, so you all know what his choice was.
The point is, I meant what I said. IF he had made the other choice, it would have dropped right then and there. Since he chose to be my sissy baby, he has to follow my rules. Believe me, there are times when the Orioles are playing that little miss sunshine doesn't feel like putting on her night-night diapers. In that case, there is punishment - just like there would be with an actual little girl.
Speaking of punishments...
Secondly, our live never gets boring or monotonous. We have a great deal of fun - both Mommy/Sissy Baby related and Wife/Husband related. This is just a part of our daily lives and even though we have kids, it works for us on a level that brings us completely together. Our lives are private, but sometimes I feel like telling my friends (who complain constantly that they have "dead" relationships) to open their mind and try something new.
Anyway, diapers, sissification and general babyhood are parts of our DAILY lives. And yes, this means that each night once the kids are in bed, the pants come off and the diapers go on. This also means that sleeping attire, depending on the weather, is either:
* A Diaper
* A Diaper and a T-Shirt
* A Diaper and Pyjamas
Is this difficult to enforce each and every day? Oh yes, especially when I am exhausted from other things. However, knowing that I can cancel a night whenever I feel like it takes much of the stress and anxiety out of being a Mommy for my hubby.
When we had our talk (which was more like me talking and him listening), I gave him a choice - either give up this baby stuff altogether, or admit that he was really a sissy baby at heart and do everything he was told, whenever he was told, like a good baby girl should. I left him in our bedroom to contemplate this decision with the only instructions being that if he did want to be my sissy baby, all he had to do was come out to the living room naked, carrying a diaper, and admit it. Obviously I'm making this site, so you all know what his choice was.
The point is, I meant what I said. IF he had made the other choice, it would have dropped right then and there. Since he chose to be my sissy baby, he has to follow my rules. Believe me, there are times when the Orioles are playing that little miss sunshine doesn't feel like putting on her night-night diapers. In that case, there is punishment - just like there would be with an actual little girl.
Speaking of punishments...
PUNISHMENTS
Just like all the experts say, discipline should have a purpose and be used to reinforce ideas or rules. The ruling ideas in my house are:
* I am in charge
* My husband is a little baby girl masquerading as a grown man
My punishments are always fair and just, and serve only to reinforce these ideas to my husband. They are as follows:
* Corner Time
Yes, I know this is a fantasy of many kinksters. However, I choose to enforce corner time when hubby doesn't want it - like when he is in the middle of his television shows or games.
* Spankings
Admittedly, these are fun for both of us. That is, until hubby is ready for them to stop.
* Baby Behavior "Helpers"
One of my most creative punishment ideas, if I may say so myself. I have a large vase filled with little scraps of paper. When hubby decides that he is a man and not the little princess he begged to be, we go for our "helpers".
On these scraps are little tasks that help hubby to remember who and what he actually is, and drive home the ideas that yes, Mommy is in charge and no, you are not the man you pretend to be when you're at work.
Mommy's helpers range in severity and babyishness, but are completely random. For example, if hubby attempts to use the potty for number 1, we will visit the "helper" vase and pull a piece of paper which might say something like "Rectal Temperature Reading". Needless to say, hubby doesn't forget again for awhile that babies use their diapers for pee-pee.
* I am in charge
* My husband is a little baby girl masquerading as a grown man
My punishments are always fair and just, and serve only to reinforce these ideas to my husband. They are as follows:
* Corner Time
Yes, I know this is a fantasy of many kinksters. However, I choose to enforce corner time when hubby doesn't want it - like when he is in the middle of his television shows or games.
* Spankings
Admittedly, these are fun for both of us. That is, until hubby is ready for them to stop.
* Baby Behavior "Helpers"
One of my most creative punishment ideas, if I may say so myself. I have a large vase filled with little scraps of paper. When hubby decides that he is a man and not the little princess he begged to be, we go for our "helpers".
On these scraps are little tasks that help hubby to remember who and what he actually is, and drive home the ideas that yes, Mommy is in charge and no, you are not the man you pretend to be when you're at work.
Mommy's helpers range in severity and babyishness, but are completely random. For example, if hubby attempts to use the potty for number 1, we will visit the "helper" vase and pull a piece of paper which might say something like "Rectal Temperature Reading". Needless to say, hubby doesn't forget again for awhile that babies use their diapers for pee-pee.
NOTE: This is an example, and yes - in response to those of you who asked - I do take hubby's temperature rectally regularly anyway. It's not the deed that is the punishment, so much as having to select his own punishment from the jar. Also, knowing that it is a punishment adds another layer onto a normal temperature taking, which is usually very sweet and loving.